SEXUAL DEFINITIONS
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TEASE & DENIAL:
Sometimes called "Arouse and Deny" or "Orgasm Denial". This is the process of bringing a male to a state of extreme sexual arousal and then preventing or disallowing his orgasm. Fetishes can be useful to help build his state of arousal. The tease and deny premise underpins the contents of this website. All of a male's most productive training takes place after he has been subjected to this process for an extended period of time. During the process it is often effective to let the male believe that he might be allowed to reach orgasm. Working on this premise, he will be more involved in the process, more eager and ultimately more aroused. The denial process can be overt, such as simply pushing him away right before he ejaculates, or subtle, such as arranging for friends to come over at a certain time thus forcing an interruption.
Testicles. The husband's sex organs which create the sperm and secrete testosterone, the male sex hormone.
Trimester. Three months of a pregnancy, usually expressed as first, second, or third trimester.
Testosterone: A male sex hormone causing the development of the male reproductive system and secondary sex characteristics.
Tumescence: This occurs when the clitoris fills with blood. Also known as "engorgement."
Torture- Painful actions used to enhance sexual pleasure.
Training- Discipline used by the dom to control the sub's behavior, condition and/or attitude. Pony training, anal training, position training, voice command response, etc. can be used for training.
TS,Transsexual- A person that mismatches his/her personal psychology. They go for counseling, hormone treatments and surgery. Before surgery a transsexual is referred as a "pre-op" TS and after surgery is a "post-op" TS.
Transgender: An umbrella term for those who blur the lines of traditional gender expression.
Transsexual: A person who has undergone or is preparing to undergo sex reassignment surgery.
Transvestite: A person who dresses in the clothes and assumes the gender expression of the opposite sex.
TEA ROOM...........................................A PUBLIC MEN'S REST ROOM
TESTICLES............................................THE MALE REPRODUCTIVE GLANDS
THIRD SEX............................................HOMOSEXUALS
TONGUE (VERB)..................................TO PERFORM ORAL INTERCOURSE
TOOLBOX..............................................THE MALE GENITALS
TRADE....................................................A PASSIVE MALE PROSTITUTE FOR HOMOSEXUALS
TRICK.....................................................A SEX PARTNER
TURN A TRICK.....................................TO TAKE ON A SEX PARTNER FOR MONEY
TRIAD- The most basic and common form of multipartner relationship, consisting of three adult primary partners, usually two of one sex and one of the other.
TERTIARY RELATIONSHIP- A friendly but casual sexualove relationship of an occasional or temporary nature.
TRIBE- An affiliation of families and clans sharing common values, customs and traditions, and regarding themselves as a tribe.
Toy = equipment used in a SM scene. aka, tool, gear, equipment
Worship = adoring and / or loving a person, a person's body or body part, or a thing in a reverential manner - such as boots. (Henkin & Holiday)
leathers = peek-a-boo leather clothing often worn during B & D activities
handkerchief codes = color codes use to identify sexual play preferences
Bottom = term references (1)female or homosexual male who most prefers to receive sexual intercourse (usually in a submissive and passive way), and/or (2)the passive participant who experiences stimuli during sadomasochistic sex games (also termed the submissive or the masochist). Henkin & Holiday definition is: "umbrella term for the person in the scene who takes the submissive, receptive or masochistic role"
Top = term references (1)female or male who prefers to dominate or control the act of copulation (usually in the thrusting role), and/or (2)the participant who controls stimuli during sadomasochistic sex games (also termed sadist or dominatrix [females only, and usually for hire]).
switch = (1)person who enjoys playing either/both the bottom-masochist role or the top-sadist role, (2)a bisexual person, (3)a small whip used in B&D activities
scat or shit = feces
testicles: plums, rocks, stones, dingleberries, balls, nuts, jewels or crown jewels or family jewels, potatoes (as in "meat and potatoes" referring to penis and testicles), cojones (Spanish), peaches, oysters
time menstrual discharge: siff, ziff, the bloody, kotex juice
peaches = (1)vulva, (2)breasts, or (3)testicles
tv or TV = transvestite
cross-dressing = wearing clothing typical of the opposite sex, often clandestinely
drag = wearing clothing and make-up typical of the opposite sex; so as to appear to actually be of the opposite sex
T & A = "Tits and Ass" usually in reference to displays of the female body (e.g.,
strippers or dancers); often references objectified female sexuality in general
ts or TS or T-person = transsexual; the more current terminology is Transgendered.
Trainspotting -- same actor and similar hair style popularized in Star Wars
Phantom Menace); considered sexy
Teacher: the dominant role during English scenario
Threesome: three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Not the same as a "menage a' trois" in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and a continuing relationship
Ticket: a person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the man to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing
Toys: sexual aids. See Marital Aids
Travel: see Can Travel
Triad: three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. not the same as a threesome
Triolism: used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage. See Triad
Tubal Ligation: surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. A method of contraception. Also called a band aid operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation
TV: transvestite: a male who enjoys dressing up and impersonating a female
TG: transgender
Tomboy: a girl who prefers the activities, privileges and dress of boys, and avoids female restrictions; sometimes used to describe adult women.
Transgender: a popular cover term designating those not traditionally male or female (i.e., between the genders), including crossdressers, transsexuals, intersexuals, gender dysphorics, and those for whom no label yet exists. Transgendered, transgenderism, transgenderist.
Transsexual: a person who feels his/her gender or identity doesn't match their biological sex ("I am a woman in a man's body" or vice versa). Most live in the desired role. A pre-op or preoperative transsexual is a TS preparing to have genital conversion surgery. A post-op or postoperative TS has had the surgery. Not all transsexuals desire surgery. Many take hormones to make their bodies look more masculine or feminine.
TS: transsexual.
Transvestite: one who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or emotional pleasure, or both. Can be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi- or solosexual, and may partially or wholly crossdress. Some have felt the word is a negative medical term; crossdresser and crossdressing are more commonly used today. Transvestism, tranny.
TV: a transvestite.
TAPHEPHILIA: Arousal from being buried alive
TAPHOPHILIA: Love of funerals
TELEOPHILIA: Affinity for religious ceremonies
TENTIGINOUS: Lascivious
TERATOPHILIA: Arousal from deformed or monstrous people
THALASSOPHILIA: Love of the sea
THASSOPHILIA: Attraction to sitting
THREPTEROPHILIA: A fondness for female nurses
THYGATRILAGNIA: A father’s sexual love for his daughter
TOCOPHILIA: Fondness for pregnancy and childbirth
TONITROPHILIA: Love of thunder
TOXIPHILIA: Attraction to poisons
TOXOPHILIA: Love of archery
TRAGALISM: Lust; lechery; obscenity
TRANSFEMINATE: To change from woman to man
TRAUMATOPHILIA: An unconscious desire to be injured
TRIBADISM: Mutual genital-fondling between lesbians
TRICHOPATHOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to hair
Taboo:
Behavior that is beyond the moral limits of cultural norms.
Tampon:
A firm roll of absorbent cotton or other fiber that is worn inside the vagina to absorb menstrual flow.
Tenting:
The expansion of the inner vagina during sexual excitement.
Testes:
Two ball-like glands inside the scrotum that produce sperm.
Testicles:
The testes.
Testosterone:
An androgen that is produced in the testes of men and in smaller amounts in the ovaries of women.
Thelarche:
The time when a girl's breasts begin to develop.
Toxic Shock Syndrome:
A rare but very dangerous overgrowth of bacteria in the vagina. Symptoms include vomiting, high fever, diarrhea, and a sunburn-type rash.
Transgender:
Women and men who dress in the clothing associated with the other gender because they enjoy being treated as if they were of the other gender‹not for sexual pleasure.
Transsexuals:
Women and men who fully identify themselves as the gender other than their biological one.
Transvestites:
Women and men who dress in clothing associated with people of the other gender because it gives them sexual pleasure.
Transvestophilia:
A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on wearing clothing, especially underwear, associated with the other gender.
Tubal Sterilization:
Surgical blocking of the fallopian tubes that is intended to provide permanent birth control.
Typical Use: Contraceptive effectiveness for women and men whose use is not consistent or always correct. transsexual: Gender identity confusion caused by the psychological urge to belong to the opposite sex, often carried to the extreme of undergoing surgical alteration and removal of sex organs, so as to be able to perfectly and completely mimic the opposite sex; an individual who craves to be of the opposite sex. Gender activists don't like to use the term transsexual (or any word with the root 'sex'). They therefore substitute the word that they wish to become the politically correct form, "transgendered.")
transsexualism: An ideology that holds that transsexuality is a permissible and desirable portion of a wide range of different types and equally valid expressions of human sexuality; a belief system that advocates special rights for transsexuals, to the extent that they demand that sex re-assignment surgery shall be publicly funded so as to permit transsexuals to submerge themselves totally and physically in their psychological fixation
transsexualist: Someone who promotes or advocates transsexualism
transsexuality: Sexual attraction directed toward playing or mimicking the role of a person of the opposite sex; erotic acts for the purpose of gaining sexual excitement or gratification while pretending to be a person of the opposite sex
testes, testicles: The male sexual glands, the two testes within the scrotum
produce sperm and testosterone. Within each testis is a kilometre of ducts called the seminiferous tubules, the organs which generate sperm. Each testicle produces nearly 150 million sperm every 24 hours.
tea room = a restroom used for hustling and fellacio
trollop = person interested in indiscriminate sexual interaction
tart = person interested in indiscriminate sexual interaction, often for hire ‘ho (whore) or puta = prostitute
tush = vulva, more particularly including buttocks and/or anus
take it in the ass = (1)receive anal intercourse, (2)to be taken advantage of
twang plums = to arouse or stimulate a male, usually including ejaculation
to be had = (1)to be taken advantage of, or (2)to be the recipient of copulation, usually the unwilling recipient
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