SEXUAL DEFINITIONS
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SADISM..................................................SEXUAL STIMULATION ASSOCIATED WITH THE DESIRE TO INFLICT PAIN, PHYSICAL OR MENTAL, ON ANOTHER
SADOMASOCHISM...BOTH SADISM AND MASOCHISM EXISTING IN THE SAME PERSON
SCORE..................................................TO ACHIEVE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
SCREW.................................................THE ACT OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
SCROTUM...........................................THE POUCH OR SAC WHICH CONTAINS THE TESTICLES
SEA FOOD............................................A SAILOR AS A SEX OBJECT
SEMEN.................................................THE FLUID PRODUCED DURING EJACULATION OF THE MALE
SHOOT.................................................TO ACHIEVE ORGASM
SIXTY-NINE.........................................GENITAL ORAL INTERCOURSE PERFORMED ON EACH OTHER.SIMULTANEOUSLY BY TWO PARTNERS
SMEGMA.............................................WHITE MATTER WHICH COLLECTS UNDER THE FORESKIN OF PENIS
SODOMY..............................................THE INSERTION OF THE PENIS INTO THE ANUS
SPERM..................................................THE FLUID THAT ERUPTS FROM THE PENIS DURING EJACULATION
STALLION............................................A MALE WHO POSESSES A VERY LARGE PENIS
STRAIGHT............................................A HETROSEXUAL
STUD......................................................A MALE WHO IS IN GREAT DEMAND AS A SEX PARTNER
SUCK OFF.............................................TO PERFORM ORAL INTERCOURSE ON THE PENIS
SUGAR DADDY....................................A MAN WHO KEEPS A YOUNGER PERSON FOR SEXUAL FAVORS
SWINGER..............................................ONE WHO ACCEPTS FREE LOVE DOCTRINE
SWISH.....................................................A MALE WHO BEHAVES IN A FEMININE MANNER
SWITCH HITTER..................................A BI-SEXUAL
SWINGING- Sport sex for couples. A form of non sexually exclusive monogamy in which two primary partners agree to have caual sex with other couples or singles as long as there is no emotional involvement.
SWAPPING- A form of swinging in which two or more primary partnered couples exchange partners for recreational sex.
Safe Word = word or gesture previously agreed upon for use by both Tops and bottoms to halt the action in a scene or a relationship.
Sensory Depravation = using blindfolds, gags, ear plugs, hoods, bondage, etc. to reduce information available to one or more senses. (Henkin & Holiday)
Service = doing for another; the bottom for the Top, as an expression of
obedience, respect, submission, devotion, love, etc.
Slave = person who is consensually owned as property of another.
Submission = volitional giving up of control and power: decision that one is not in charge. (Henkin & Holiday)
Submissive = person who gives up power and control in a scene.
Suspension = a form of bondage in which a person is partly or fully raised off the ground.
scrotum: sack, bag (note however that "hose bag" refers to vagina), scrotes
sexually attractive man: babe, beefcake, bod, dude, gigolo, heartbreaker, honcho, honey, hunk, John-John, jumbo (from "Jumbo" the elephant; references large penis), lover, lunch, my guy or my man, rider, rump, roller, snatch, symbolic (from "sex symbol"), starter, stud or stud-muffin, sweetie, tush
sexually attractive woman: babe, baby, bird, bod, chick, date, fox, kitten, mama or big mama, nookie, nymph, panty or panties, piece, skirt, snatch, sweetie, heartbreaker,lover, tush, willie wacker, fly buster, Betty, Mantovani, bimbette, hole, lubrication,kickin’ or hotchin’
syphilis: bad blood, siph, pox, ‘lues (derived from pustules)
crabs = (1)pubic lice, or (2)VD/STD in general
shitter or crapper = (1)anus or (2)toilet
moon or to "shoot the moon" = expose the buttocks, usually in jest
S&M: sadomasochism: giving (sadism) or receiving (masochism) pain or discomfort
Safe: used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy. Also refers to a rubber or condom
Same Room Sex: intercouple sex between couples in same room
SASE: self-addressed stamped envelope.
Sgl single person.
Shaved: usually most or all of the pubic area
Single: a swinger without a partner, single or married.
Social: a party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. there is no swinging at a social but privately arranged swinging may follow a social
Social Swing Club: a swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important
Soft Swinging: a social, erotic swing party environment where sexual activity is common and available, but not required or assumed. Sometimes used to describe swapping up to, but not including intercourse. The term developed in Southern California in the early 1970's. See Hard Swinging, Hard Core
STD: sexually transmitted disease. a term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. these social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem
Str: straight (ie not gay - hetrosexual)
Straight: non-swinger; a swinger who is not interested in same sex sexual activity; a person who does not use drugs; non bisexual, non-gay
Student: the submissive role during English scenario
Submissive: see Passive
Sub submissive: plays the passive, controlled role during scenario
Submissive: plays the passive, controlled role during scenario
Swapping: two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity
Swedish Culture: use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate
Swing Magazine: a periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community
Swinging: social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved
Swinging Lifestyle: style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships
Swinging Marriage: marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals
Sexual Aid/Sex Toy: A catch-all term for any device used for sexual stimulation.
Silicone: An expensive, quality material used to make high-end toys.
Strap-On: A dildo or vibrator that is attached via a harness (generally in the genital region).
Sadomasochism: inflicting and receiving pain, often to produce sexual excitement. See also: domination. Masochism, SM, S&M, S/M.
Sex: other than having sex, one's biological assignment as male or female, or in between (see intersexual).
Sex hormones: substances produced by the testes, ovaries and adrenal glands in different quantities in females and males which promote bodily sexual characteristics. Certain hormones artificially taken by men can grow breasts. Other hormones taken by women can grow facial hair and lower the voice.
Sex reassignment surgery: surgery to change, within the limits of surgical possibility, a person's genitals to those of the other sex (and retain the possibility of sexual stimulation). In male-to-female conversion, the penis is converted to a vagina. In female-to-male conversion, the challenge has been to create a version of a penis.
Sexual identity: how one perceives oneself as male, female, or in between. A biological female may identify as a male and vice versa.
Sexual orientation: how a person chooses to have sex -- with the same or opposite sex, with both, with oneself, or not at all (asexual).
S/he: can be used in place of the generic "he," which has been used as a cover term for all males and females (similar to the usage "man's role on earth" to indicate everyone).
Sissy: a boy or man seen as having feminine qualities; often a negative term.
Solosexual: having a preference for sex with one's self (a term invented by Valory Gravois; please advise if there is a better existing word)
SRS: sex reassignment surgery.
SAPPHISM: Lesbianism
SCELEROPHILIA: Attraction to bad guys or unsavory characters
SCOPTOPHILIA: Voyeurism
SCOTOPHILIA: Turned on by darkness
SDRUCCIOLA: Copulate
SEPTOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to decaying matter
SIDERODROMOPHILIA: Arousal from riding in trains
SITOPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from eating
SOCERAPHILIA: Excitement from one’s parents-in-law
SOPHOPHILIA: Sexual gratification from learning
SOROPHILIA: Attraction to one’s sister
SPADONISM: Eunuchry
SPECTROPHILIA: Arousal from looking at oneself in a mirror
SPERMATOPHOBIA: Fear of semen
SPINTRY: A male whore
STASIVALENCE: Ability to have sexual intercourse only while standing
STAUROPHILIA: Arousal from the cross or crucifix
STHENOLAGNIA: Arousal from displaying strength or muscles
STUPRATION: Rape
STYGIOPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from thoughts of hell
SUBAGITATION: Copulation
SUCCUBUS: A female demon who seduces men in their sleep
SUPINOVALENT: Able to fornicate only while lying on the back
SYMPHOROPHILIA: Arousal by accidents or catastrophes
SYNGENESOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to one’s relatives
Sacred:
Devoted to religious purpose.
Sadism:
A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on sexual role play or fantasy that includes giving punishment, discipline, or humiliation.
Sadomasochism (S and M):
The consensual use of domination and/or pain for sexual stimulation in sex play. The "sadist" is the partner who dominates and inflicts pain. The "masochist" is the partner who is dominated and receives pain.
Safer Sex:
Ways in which people reduce the risk of getting sexually transmitted infections, including HIV.
Safe Word:
A previously agreed upon signal that means a partner is no longer enjoying a sexual activity and it must stop.
Sample:
The group of people or subjects studied in a research project.
Sanitary Pad:
An absorbent "napkin" made of cotton or similar fibers that is worn against the vulva to absorb menstrual flow.
Satyriasis:
The desire by a man to have sex very frequently with many different partners.
Scabies:
Tiny mites that can be sexually transmitted. They burrow under the skin, causing intense itching (usually at night) and small bumps or rashes that appear in dirty-looking, small curling lines, especially on the penis, between the fingers, on buttocks, breasts, wrists, and thighs, and around the navel.
Scrotum:
A sac of skin, divided into two parts, enclosing the testes, epididymides, and a part of the vasa deferentia. Secondary
Sex Characteristics:
Characteristics of the body that are caused by hormones, develop during puberty, and last through adult life. For women, these include breast development and widened hips. For men, they include facial hair development. Both genders develop pubic hair and underarm hair.
Secular:
Devoted to human purpose.
Self-Esteem:
Self-respect; worthwhile feeling.
Semen:
Fluid containing sperm that is ejaculated during sexual excitement. Semen is composed of seminal fluid from the seminal vesicles, fluid from the prostate, and fluid from the Cowper's glands.
Seminal Fluid:
A fluid that nourishes and helps sperm to move. Seminal fluid is made in the seminal vesicles.
Seminal Vesicle:
One of two small organs located beneath the bladder that produce seminal fluid.
Seminiferous Tubules:
A network of tiny tubules in the testes that constantly produce sperm. Seminiferous tubules also produce androgens, the "male" sex hormones.
Sex:
Gender; the act of sex play.
Sex Cell:
A reproductive cell.
Sex Drive:
Our natural urge and desire to have sex.
Sexism:
Bias against a certain gender‹especially against women.
Sexology:
The scientific study of sex and sexuality through many disciplines including, but not limited to, anthropology, biology, sociology, history, psychology, medicine, and law.
Sex Play:
Any voluntary sexual activity, with or without a partner.
Sex Therapy:
Treatment to resolve a sexual problem or dysfunction such as premature ejaculation, inability to have orgasm, or low level of sexual desire.
Sexual Abuse:
Sexual activity that is harmful or not consensual.
Sexual Addiction:
The compulsive search for having very frequent sex.
Sexual Assault:
The use of force or coercion, physical or psychological, to make a person engage in sexual activity.
Sexual Aversion Disorder:
The fear of sexual contact.
Sexual Compulsion:
An obsession with having very frequent sex, often with many different sex partners.
Sexual Compulsives Anonymous:
A self-help recovery group for women and men who want to control what they believe to be sexual addictions.
Sexual Conflict:
The clash between sex drive and sexual inhibition.
Sexual Desire:
A strong physically arousing attraction.
Sexual Discomfort:
Feelings of sexual inhibition that are not as severe as dysfunctions.
Sexual Double Standard:
See Double Standard.
Sexual Dysfunction:
A psychological or physical disorder of sexual function.
Sexual Harassment:
Unwanted sexual advances with suggestive gestures, language, or touching.
Sexual Identity:
Feelings about one's own sexual orientation, gender, gender role, and gender identity.
Sexuality:
The interplay of gender, gender role, gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual preference, and social norms as they affect physical, emotional, and spiritual life.
Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs):
Infections that are often or usually passed from one person to another during sexual or intimate contact.
Sexual Norm:
A cultural norm regarding sex or sexuality.
Sexual Orientation:
The term used to describe the gender of the objects of our sexual desires. People who feel sexual desire for members of the other gender are heterosexual, or straight. People who feel sexual desire for people of the same gender are homosexual, or gay. Gay women are called lesbians. People who are attracted to both genders are bisexuals.
Sexual Repression:
The suppression of sexual activities, ideas, or identities that are perceived to be harmful or morally wrong.
Sexual Response Cycle:
The pattern of response to sexual stimulation. The five stages of the cycle are desire, excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.
Sexual Seduction:
Legally, the encouragement of a younger or less mature person into an illegal sexual situation.
Sexual Stereotype:
An overly simplified judgment or bias regarding the sexuality of a person or group.
Sex Worker:
One who is paid for providing sex or sexually arousing conditions, including prostitution, striptease, lap dancing, commercial phone sex, and erotic massage.
Shaft:
A part of the penis and clitoris.
Smegma:
A sticky, white, unpleasant-smelling substance produced at the glans of the penis. It is formed by bacteria and body oils.
Social Stigma:
Severe disapproval for behavior that is not within cultural norms.
Sociology:
The study of human relationships, interactions, beliefs, values, behaviors, and their meanings.
Sodomy:
Oral or anal intercourse.
Somatotropin:
The human growth hormone secreted by the pituitary gland.
Spectatoring:
The habit of thinking about, comparing, grading, and monitoring one's sexual performance while having sex.
Speculum:
A plastic or metal instrument used to separate the walls of the vagina so the clinician can examine the vagina and cervix.
Speculum Exam:
Physical examination of the walls of the vagina and cervix that is accomplished by using a speculum.
Sperm:
The reproductive cells in men, produced in the seminiferous tubules of the testes.
Spermarche:
The time when sperm is first produced by the testes of a boy.
Spermatogenesis:
The process of producing sperm. Spermatogenesis occurs in the seminiferous tubules of the testes.
Spermicides:
Chemicals used to immobilize sperm and protect against certain sexually transmitted infections.
Spirochete:
Organism that causes syphilis.
Squeeze Technique:
A method for postponing early ejaculation.
Statutory Rape:
Sexual intercourse between an adult and anyone who is below the age of consent, whether or not it is voluntary.
STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease):
A sexually transmitted infection that has developed symptoms.
Stereotype:
An overly simplified judgment or bias regarding a person or group.
Sterilization:
Surgical methods of birth control that are intended to be permanent (blocking of the fallopian tubes for women or the vasa deferentia for men).
Stimuli:
Things that excite response or action.
Straight:
Heterosexual.
Stranger Rape:
Coerced sexual intercourse by an assailant unknown to the victim.
Stress:
Being made to feel threatened or challenged in some way.
Syphilis:
A sexually transmitted organism that can lead to disorders, or death.
sex: The distinction between male and female; the characteristics by which humans, animal or plants are male or female; gender: the female sex, women generally, usually with the definite article
sex object: One who is regarded exclusively as an object of sexual interest
sexologist: One who studies sex or the interactions of the sexes
sexual: Pertaining to sex; distinguished or founded on the sex
sexual harassment: Uninvited and unwelcome conduct directed at anyone because of his or her sex
Note: False allegations of sexual harassment are one of the most potent weapons in the feminist arsenal used in the gender war. It is a weapon that men neither use nor hardly ever can avail themselves of. The feminist dominated courts hold that women don't rape, kill, molest, abuse or harass. Women are considered to be innocent under all and any circumstances. The insidious nature of allegations of sexual harassment is that no absolute and objective standards exist by which it can be determined whether sexual harassment occurred, or by which one can measure its degree of severity. Usually a woman's allegations of sexual harassment, even if uncorroborated by any evidence or witnesses, are taken at face value, unless the accused man can prove that he was elsewhere and not in the presence of the accusing woman at the time he was to have been engaged in harassing her. Even that is often ruled out as admissible evidence and the accuser's word made superior to that of any witnesses a man may be able to produce.
Furthermore, what may be a man's nightingale can easily be perceived, or claimed to be, the woman's owl or nightmare. It matters little whether the perceived harassment is a figment of her imagination or a product of her maliciousness.
What aggravates the aspects of sexual harassment allegations is that in many localities it is a criminal offence to sexually harass. In Canada is has been assigned to the same criminal category as rape, to the category of sexual assault.
Therefore "rape statistics" in Canada now encompass criminal convictions for offences that range from uncorroborated charges of leering at a woman in a public swimming pool to rape with aggravated assault and murder. That had a fine effect. It raised statistics for incidents of "rape" to dizzying heights.
sexuality: State or quality of being sexual
sexualize: To distinguish as sexed, to raise sexual awareness, to make sexual
sexual orientation: According to the traditional perspective, one of two possible self-images an individual may have of himself (normally correlating to one's own sex); and according to more liberal views, one of a multitude of sexual preferences one may adopt during his life time, preferences that are not the outcome of one's biological constraints but rather of one's preference with respect to how to obtain sexual excitation and gratification (e. g.: fetishism, homosexuality, pedophilia, sodomy, coprophilia, pederasty, sado-masochism, transsexualism, etc.); syn. see GENDER
sodomist SODOMITE
sodomite: One who practices sodomy — sodomitic or sodomitical adj.
sodomy: Unnatural non-coital (anal, oral or manual) copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex or with an animal
statutory rape: Sexual intercourse with a person who is unable to give meaningful consent Note: Pederasty and other sodomitic sexual acts by adults with children are criminal acts, in fact, they are statutory rape, because children are unable to give meaningful consent. For that reason some homosexualists are engaged in bringing about legislation that lowers the age of sexual consent for children. In some countries the age of sexual consent for children engaged in homosexual acts has been lowered already to the age of 12. Apparently it is thought that if laws lowering the age of sexual consent are enacted that the maturity of children that enables them to give meaningful consent is thereby miraculously brought about. One thing is certain, though, the criminalization of sexual acts with children is thereby much reduced and perhaps eventually completely eliminated by declaring children of all ages sufficiently mature to engage in anything the lobbyists want them to engage in.
Homosexual activists generally deny that that is their intention. However, it is very rare that any of their members object to what is being done with respect to lowering the age of consent for children, and those who do object are quickly silenced by various means.
What remains to be seen is any other logical explanation for lowering the age of consent for children who are being engaged in homosexual acts. It is very puzzling that the play by Eve Ensler, "The Vagina Monologues,"(critiqued by Henry Makow, PhD.) the latest major "cultural export" from the US, contains a very graphic glorification of statutory rape of a 12-year-old girl by a lesbian woman. What is even more curious is that many celebrities who are avowed opponents of child-sexual-abuse and even advertise their "survivor" status (e.g.: Oprah Winfrey) highly praised Eve Ensler's play. So, what are we to make of that? Is statutory rape by women not a criminal act in the eyes of women who are 'survivors' of child sexual abuse? Apparently not.
transgendered: TRANSSEXUAL
sex toys:A sex toy is a term for any object or device that is primarily used in facilitating human sexual pleasure. This term can also include BDSM apparatus
Sadism. Receiving sexual stimulation by giving pain, usually during foreplay. See "Masochism" .
Safe sex. A misnomer which involves wearing a condom during homosexual or heterosexual intercourse as a means of avoiding contracting an STD. There is no "safe" illicit sex. The failure rate of the best condoms is estimated to range between 10 and 20 percent.
Semen. The fluid which contains the sperm as it is ejaculated from the penis during the husband's orgasm.
Sexual activity. This is the term that should have been used by the court in the Paula Corbin Jones/Clinton matter. Any activity or combination of activities designed to cause sexual excitement which, if continued, will cause orgasm for one or both parties. Sexual activity includes but is not limited to: oral sex, vaginal intercourse, stimulating [with the hands or mouth] the penis of the man or the breasts and vulva of the woman.
Sexual immorality. A general term in scripture referring to intercourse between unmarried persons; fornication.
Sexual intercourse, conjugation. Inserting the husband's erect penis into the wife's vagina, usually associated with thrusting to the point of orgasm.
Sexually-transmitted diseases (STDs). Any disease, such as AIDS, which can be passed to another person during sexual activity. The classic STDs are syphilis and gonorrhea. A common modern STD is genital herpes.
Sperm. The husband's contribution to conception. Sperm can "swim" to unite with the wife's egg after being ejaculated into her vagina.
Spermacide. A birth control product designed to kill the sperm in the vagina before they can reach the wife's egg.
Sexual Dysfunction: Physical and mental difficulties with arousal, lack of desire, fear of intimacy and overactive sexual activity. Difficulties may be persistent, recurring or once in a lifetime. See also Erectile Dysfunction.
Sadism, sadist- Sexual pleasure that results from pain, humiliation and/or domination. The sadist delivers pain or humiliation to the people desiring it by respecting their limits and by being caring and careful.
Sadomasochism, SM- Sexual practices in an advanced level where pain , humiliation and power exchange are being used. SM has also dominance and submission, bondage and discipline, love bondage and erotic spanking.
Safe, sane and consensual- In the SM community are characteristics of acceptable play. During activities, players take safety precautions or they do not participate in practice that could injure mentally or physically their partners. Before the activities they consent by negotiating.
Scene- The SM or fetish community or a SM session or occurrence during play.
Slave- A submissive that is involved in a slave/master fantasy.
Slave training-The instruction of a submissive in a dominant's preference . The submissive's behavior is conditioned.
Spanking- Striking or paddling a submissive in their butts.
Switch- When a person trades places in a SM role or physical play. Ex: top or bottom, dom or sub. It is also a tree or bush branch used for corporal punishment.
Sexual Orientation: Sexual identification, depending on a person's sexual relationships or affinity.
Significant Other: One's chosen romantic partner.
Smash: A young woman's crush on another woman. The term was used in late nineteenth century and early twentieth century women's colleges.
sixty-nine
term for a sexual activity in which two people simultaneously stimulate each other's genitals orally
scrotum
pouch containing testicles: the external pouch of skin and muscle containing the testes in mammals. It allows sperm to develop at a temperature lower than that of the body.
sound:transitive verb medicine examine something with probe: to use a surgical probe to examine a body cavity or passage such as the bladder or to dilate a constriction
submissive:ready to submit to others: giving in or tending to give in to the demands or authority of others
scrotum: The scrotum is a sac that hangs behind and below the penis, and containts the testes, the male sexual glands. The scrotum's primary function is to maintain the testes at approximately 34 C, the temperature at which the testes most effectively produce sperm.
seminal vesicles: The seminal vesicles produce semen, a fluid that activates
and protects the sperm after it has left the penis during ejaculation
smemga: A substance with the texture of cheese secreted by glands on each side of the frenulum in uncircumsized men.
SEXUALOVE- The synergic fusing of love and sexuality into a single erotic emotion in an intimate relationship.
stuffing = inserting objects into vagina or anus
snuffing = sex play which results in death; e.g., a snuff scene involves someone
being killed while involved in [painful or violent] sexual activities
S & M = Sadistic and Masochistic sexual stimulation (sadomasochism)
SECONDARY RELATIONSHIP- An ongoing sexualove relationship in which the partners usually do not live together, and do not consider their relationship a first priority.
SERIAL MONOGAMY- The most common lovestyle in the US today. Consists of being married to one partner at a time with frequent changes in partners.
score = to obtain sexual favors or intercourse
snatch = (1)vulva/vagina, (2)copulation or sexual interaction in general, (3)a sexually attractive man or woman
sorted = arrangements have been completed
slut = person who seeks for and/or participates in indiscriminate sexual behavior, but usually not in reference to being for hire
suck face or smackin’ or mackin’ = deep kissing, French kissing, tongue kissing foreplay: necking, petting, make out, scoring, operating, play around or fool around, dry humping, playing "doctor," get serious, get down to business, get hot or hot & bothered, warm up, pre-game show, taxi for take-off
sympathy-fuck aka mercy-fuck = sexual activity initiated or motivated by pity rather than by arousal, love, or financial gain (e.g., a wife gives sex only because husband looks sad, or a prostitute doesn’t charge for sex due to feeling sorry for client)
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